Your mind is a battlefield, and every thought of your ex seems to score another victory against your peace and happiness. It's a paradox: the more you struggle, the more power they seem to gain over you. The truth is, you've inadvertently stumbled into a mental spiral, increasing their value in your mind and making the recovery process even harder.
Now, let me share a little secret. This disbalance of power,
this disparity of subjective value - it's reversible. If you're serious about recovery, about becoming attractive to them (if you want to get your ex back), or to someone else, it's time to restore balance. It's time to even the score. But how?