Imagine yourself learning to ride a motorbike, or hitting the mountain biking trails for the first time. Engaging in activities that demand your full attention not only diverts your mind but also provides bursts of dopamine – the "feel-good" hormone.
Personally, I'd suggest trying martial arts. The moment you step into the ring, your past becomes a blurry memory. You're right there, in the present moment, more vibrant and alive than ever. But if physical activity isn't an option, why not try video games? Studies show they can improve visual selective attention and several cognitive domains, such as working memory and cognitive flexibility.
In the end, the solution isn't meditation, talking, or coaching. The solution is action. Activities that command your undivided attention, captivate you, trigger a rush of dopamine, and above all, strengthen you. Because a personal crisis like a breakup can be one of the best opportunities for personal growth and resilience. You can do it. Also, your journey to recovery doesn't have to be one filled with trial and error.
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