All of this has nothing to do with reality, of course (after reading this article, can you name one exception from this list that appeared to be legit?). I also thought that a breakup is a normal thing (it is not) and it is normal to "let go"
(whatever this means).
Two relationship consultants in a row told me that some questions just could not be answered. But, fortunately, I was very arrogant, and this arrogance helped me. I wanted my answers, and I wanted to get my ex back. After two years of research and practice, I found all the answers I needed. I then started helping my friends, and then their friends, polishing the solution, and at last, found myself helping people around the world.
The primary advantage of this solution is that you can test it for yourself - quickly. No need for theorizing, no need for serious thinking - you can just execute, get the results, and only then, when you're calm, use your mind to reassess the situation. The power of this technique is in the limbic system. The ancient mechanisms in our brains that control us are very powerful, they're primal - and yet, they are very simple.
Sometimes you can spend hours, days, or even months trying to explain to your couple how much you love them, and how important this relationship is for both
of you. Some men and women have the experience of begging their exes to come back for months. Experience of sending them expensive gifts. And, in the end, their exes become even more indifferent and angry. But when these men and women try different, effective
methods, sometimes even the simplest, bold moves - their exes are at their doors. Literally
. I occasionally receive messages from my clients with something like "he/she is in my courtyard and wants to get in - is it the final stage of no contact
? Should I let them in?"
Here is why men and women have their marriages ruined - because there is an imbalance in power