In the quiet solitude that your absence creates, they begin to imagine the possibilities. The dream state of reunion begins to take form. They may start to picture shared laughter over a familiar inside joke, the warmth of shared silences, the comfort of mutual understanding, the sparkle in your eyes when you talk about your passions. These are the memories that the silence of no contact brings to the forefront of their mind.
They may even begin to dream about how different it would be if they had another chance. How they would right their wrongs, how they would value the relationship more, how they would love and appreciate you better. This state can be a potent motivator, encouraging them to reach out and bridge the silence between you both.
This is where your strength and resolve in maintaining the no contact rule pay off! However, it's important to remember that this is a process, and just like any process, it takes time. Patience, courage, and confidence in the effectiveness of no contact are crucial during this phase.
There's an enormous chance that your unwavering silence will propel them to the final stage of no contact much quicker - a pattern I've repeatedly seen in my practice. In the silence that you've created, nostalgia and regret will inevitably creep into their mind. As readers of my blogs and guides will know, these thoughts of you will amplify your subjective value in their mind, pulling them closer to the idea of you even when you're not physically present.
At some point, after you've successfully sidestepped all their tricks and games, they'll make contact. Typically, their first message is something along the lines of "how are you," but it can also be a fake apology. How should you decide whether or not to respond? To help you navigate this critical decision, I've put together the "No Contact Blueprint." Your answer awaits on page 8. Ignore the usual price of $29.99; specifically for my website's inner circle, it's currently free - but this deal won't be around forever. Enter your email below to secure your free copy while this privileged offer is still in effect: