Let's assume that you started your no contact phase in February. Your subjective value begins to slowly recover. If you're consistent with your strategy and maintain the no contact, it will continue to grow. As a result, your attractiveness will also grow.
In the picture above, you can see a point that represents the level of your subjective value when they text you something like, "Why don't you call me?" or "Why don't you text me?" Further up, there's another level where they admit they made a mistake and are finally ready to reunite with you. This is what I call a strong position. But what happens when the urge to reach out to your ex
becomes too strong to resist and you end up sending them a message or even a gift?